I post this message from a house filled with grieving people. My father passed at 4:43 this morning. I can see him from where I sit.
I can't conceive of a world without him, and yet, here it is, unbidden and unwanted.
H. Ben
Photo from last year.
H. Ben
Current Photo 50 pounds lighter...
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7 comments:
I know this isn't what anyone wanted but we can take comfort in the fact that he's no longer suffering.
We aren't as lucky in the sadness and grief we experience from losing him, however, please take a moment from your feelings to reflect on how much our lives have been enriched for having had him be a part of them.
Ben & Amy.....Your father asked me to remind you he loves you very much and couldn't be prouder of you.
Nettie
You are journeying across the divving water that lies between this world and the next, carried away by the feryman on your way. Look ahead of you, do not look behind. Look ahead of you, where your destiny lies. Do you see them? They are there, ahead of you on the other shore. Slowly, they become visible to you; the shing ones appear to you, though hidden from your eyes. Go to them, they welcome you. Go to them, not stopping for farewells. Holy Ones in the world beyond, open wide your arms to recieve this one who is journeying to you. Make him a home, bring him to rest. Farewell, my brother Ben. We who have loved you wish you a good journey.
as one that have walked this road many times in the past even if it is just as hard this time as it was the first time i have to say that from my unique point of view (my own) i see Ben/Hal in a place where he is free of pain limber and agile as a kid of 10 (with the wisdom of a man of 90) and free to go to the woods any time he was to with he good friend Rawley for hunting and camping like they used to.
I know i will feel the loss of Ben even if i was "new" to the circle of friends and family but he have made an impact on me bigger than i would have ever thought possible after just the first time i meet him and the spirit og Ben will be with me forever.......
He will always be with us, watching over us like other beloved family members who have passed. He'll always be there.
Ben & Amy, you were blessed to have the gift of such a great father. He had the gift of having incredible children. That meant more to him than anything in this world. I thankfully know what that feels like. You shared a very special relationship with each other that will always be part of both of you, and part of him. Surround yourself in that love, and the love of those who are standing around you now.
He's at peace now, free from pain.
Much love!
xxoo
Ben and Amy (and other family members), I share in your grief even though I "only" knew your father online. His singular spirit, full of love and gentleness, touched me and will live on through me and others.
That is small consolation, I know (having lost both my parents some years ago); but in time, I hope it will be one that helps you overcome the feelings of loss and pain.
Even as I sit here with tears in my eyes, I choose to celebrate his life and his positive contributions to so many people. My thoughts are with you.
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